WHEN YOUR ENERGY RATS YOU OUT (AND IT ALWAYS DOES)

You can sit there chanting affirmations ‘til your voice goes croaky. You can plaster your walls with vision boards that look like Pinterest sneezed. You can journal your intentions in gold ink. All fabulous. All powerful.

But here’s the cosmic kicker: your energy will out you every single time.

If your vibration doesn’t match your words, the universe (and everyone else) is picking up what you’re really putting down, not your mouth.

The Sneaky Truth Beneath the Words

You’ve felt this. Someone insists they’re “fine” while radiating the energetic equivalent of a horror soundtrack. Or they preach love and light, but you can feel the storm clouds hiding under their halo. That mismatch? Energetic incongruence.

I once had a client desperate to “release her anger.” A few minutes in, she confessed people kept calling her aggressive. She was baffled: “But I’ve been so lovely!”

I smiled and reminded her: “Well… you did book a session for anger.”

She wasn’t saying it. But her field was screaming it.

Why Energy Always Gets the Last Word

You can curate your words like a PR campaign, but if your energy is cluttered, scattered, or clinging to old wounds, it’ll always leak through. Think of it like wearing a sequined gown but forgetting you’ve got toilet paper stuck to your shoe. People notice the toilet paper.

This isn’t failure. It’s feedback. A signal to clear the static so your field is as clean, magnetic, and unapologetic as your intentions.

How to Stop Your Energy From Embarrassing You

So how do you get your words and your energy singing the same song?

• Pause before reacting - Your mouth doesn’t need to run the show.

• Feel what’s real - Skip the polished spin and check what your body’s actually holding.

• Drop into your body - One hand on your heart, one breath in. And say, "Get in your body" - to your spirit. That’s where truth hangs out. From there, speak. That’s when your presence is the message.

Why “Doing the Work” Still Feels Like a Treadmill

Journaling. Meditating. Manifesting. Still stuck? It’s not that you’re failing the spiritual Olympics. It’s that your energy is still broadcasting reruns of old stories. And no new mantra can override a signal that’s out of tune.

The Real Freedom

Energetic alignment isn’t about fixing yourself. It’s about tuning back into the part of you that’s already wise, peaceful, and powerful - then cranking that frequency.

When your energy matches your truth, momentum comes naturally. Change doesn’t just happen; it sticks. You stop looping the same lessons and start moving forward for real.

That’s not just healing. That’s freedom.

👉 If this hits, this is exactly what we do inside SoulFlow: a full recalibration of your energy and nervous system, so you stop saying the right things and start being them. Learn more about SoulFlow here